During a Connecticut divorce involving minor children, parenting matters are likely to cause intense emotional reactions. While people may fight about property division in some cases, they almost inevitably feel strongly about protecting their relationships with their children.
Most parents in Connecticut find a way to negotiate an agreeable shared custody arrangement. However, some families end up taking their custody disputes to family court. A Connecticut family law judge hearing a contested custody case or a contested modification request should make decisions based on the best interests of the children. They must consider certain key factors when deciding how to divide parenting time and other parental responsibilities, including the following.
The unique needs of the children
Maybe one of the children in the family is autistic, or perhaps they have a learning disability. Physical and mental health challenges may have a major impact on custody determinations. Judges consider the degree of support that the children need when deciding how to split parenting time and decision-making authority.
The abilities and conduct of the parents
Another key consideration is how well each parent can meet the needs of the children. Judges look at someone’s current employment arrangements and living circumstances, as well as their physical and mental health. Additionally, their willingness to meet the needs of the children and to cooperate with a co-parent can also be important considerations. Parents who show that they put what is best for the children first may have a better chance of obtaining favorable custody terms than those who focus on their own wishes throughout custody litigation.
Any history of addiction or abuse
Parents sometimes have personal issues that impact their ability to successfully meet the needs of children. Perhaps they have anger issues and have an established history of lashing out physically when they become frustrated. Maybe they self-medicate with alcohol or recreational drugs. Judges can consider any documented history of abuse, neglect or addiction when deciding how to approach custody matters.
Parents preparing for litigated custody proceedings often need to present their evidence in a specific manner to obtain the most favorable terms possible. Understanding what guides custody determinations may benefit those preparing for family court.
